What we're about
Stop The Tip exists to change the culture of tipping. We start in America, where it's worst, and work to keep it from spreading to the rest of the world.
A dispatch, for the record.
I'm not going to explain how I got here. The short version is that where I'm from, the prompts never stopped. They learned. They spread. By the end they were asking the dead for gratuity and adding a service charge to the funeral. I came back to a point where it could still be turned around. This website is that point. Less dramatically: tipping is a wage policy dressed up as manners, and I would like it to stop. Everything below is true and sourced. The time-travel part is between us.
We're not anti-worker. We're the opposite. We want every hospitality and service worker paid a fair, predictable, guaranteed wage, the kind that doesn't depend on a stranger's mood, the weather, their looks, or how aggressively a screen guilt-trips you.
Concretely, we campaign for:
The enemy is the system, never the server. Until the rules change, tip according to your local norms, and fight to change the rules.
The long versionTipping is widely traced to late-medieval and early-modern Europe, where it functioned as a display of social rank: a wealthy patron or houseguest would press extra coins on the servants of a host, or on tradespeople, to signal generosity and status. The popular "To Insure Promptitude" acronym story is almost certainly a later myth, but the class dynamic, money flowing down from the powerful to the serving class, was real and is baked into tipping to this day.
Wealthy Americans travelling in Europe in the mid-1800s brought the custom home to look sophisticated. But tipping took on a darker role after the Civil War: employers, especially in the restaurant and rail-car industries, used it to avoid paying newly-emancipated Black workers a real wage, expecting customers to cover their pay through tips instead. Tipping in America was, from early on, a tool for paying marginalised workers as little as legally possible.
Tipping was genuinely controversial. Many Americans saw it as undemocratic, un-American, even corrupt, a bribe culture imported from the old aristocracies. In the early 1900s several US states passed anti-tipping laws. They were poorly enforced and ultimately repealed. The practice, backed by industries that profited from it, won out.
As federal wage law developed through the 20th century, the restaurant lobby secured a crucial carve-out: a separate "tipped minimum wage." Employers could pay tipped workers a much lower base, so long as tips brought them up to the regular minimum (a "tip credit"). The federal tipped minimum has sat at $2.13 an hour since 1991. In those states, your tip isn't a bonus on top of a wage. It substantially is the wage.
Touchscreen point-of-sale systems and delivery apps changed everything. Suddenly every transaction, whether it's coffee, a pastry, a retail purchase or self-checkout, ends with a screen presenting pre-selected 18/20/25%+ buttons while a worker (or a camera) watches. The "ask" expanded from sit-down restaurants to nearly everywhere. Suggested defaults crept upward. Surveys now show a majority of people feel tipping has gone too far, yet feel trapped into doing it anyway. That trapped feeling is the entire design.
Because the same handful of payment platforms power checkouts around the world, the tip prompt is being exported. Countries that historically paid staff a living wage and treated tipping as rare or even rude are now seeing US-style prompts appear. The window to push back, before "round up and add 20%?" becomes normal everywhere, is open right now.
Across much of Asia, Oceania and parts of Europe, tipping is minimal or nonexistent, staff are paid properly, and service is excellent. In some places, leaving a tip is mildly insulting, because it implies the worker isn't already paid to do a good job. These aren't utopias; they're ordinary places that simply chose to put wages on the employer instead of the customer. We can choose that too.
The evidenceWe argue loudly, but we don't make things up. The key claims on this site are drawn from:
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